You need to practice the art of speech
which means confidence, tact and reach.
Listening also plays a part
when relating with your heart.
It will happen, wait and see.
Turn your mind and turn the key.

can i express everything...my mouth cannot move on the moment... the legs suddenly disobeyed me, moving hardly. It seems that there are something holding me to move forwards... But it is so wired that I cant also move backwards...What the hell is it?It is better to annoy it.

"will u move ?"

It is useless to bait at me... it is because I deny to move... How hard u can push on me and how much i can let u down totally...I believe that my words which i have told someone is no an excuse but a process to make me understand myself well from day to day.

I can give u my words...dun worry for me Mom, bro and..and..and my dad...I wanna to reach !8 year ago le...I am still like Shit sticking on the laziness all the time...Let me myself independent ba..I wanna to see how worse am i now...i wanna see the death of another independent thinker how will he treat me terribly... so damn!!

Well, I started to understand that I am the one who quite hate to compete with people... "you want this ma? thn take it from me ba"...u like my gal ma? so go chase her la ^^"... U wan to leave me ma? thn go ba=]"....haha, it is I am ..hehe... People who dun understand me will tease me like coward la, chicken la, pig la and more... Anyway, I seldom refuse people's request to me... I feel unwell to say NO to them...I feel that if people are happy if i have done it to them then i will also happy d...what for u ask me to compete v them and win them fianlly i gt what i have bt are they happy ?so i am very friendy to everyone if they dun shoot my weakness...

However, this world is unfair... If i dun compete, who gotta to protect my family, friends and my lover?So i have to be stronger thn everyone...To protect someone, means to hurt another....this has become use in this world...who dun like will be kick out and never be the head...even through how i dislike i have to accept this fear... it will make sense for me to grow maturally... I will grow one day and take the duty from my dad..I wanna to tell my dad something:" whether what kind of job i gt, i will protect This family and new family members whom will come in to this family ...I dun nid any motivator but CHALLENGERS...

characteristic is depanded on situation.

Growing

u ask me when i gotta be serious in my study... I will respond gentlemanly and say: " when the day i totally understand me myself." could u accept this answer?

U are going to scold me i know that but I realize that I have to be stronger in future...Seriously, i have lost the trust slightly to my best friend whom I believe in him the most.I need to be an independent guy.However, sometimes I think that the way of my thought is wrong. I choose to being with him, my best friend again... After few days, he made me moody... I know his attitude anyway since THIS YEAR even through being a friend for three years and four months.

Who knows? you will properly tease at me silkily...

haha... nola, he was very suit to me before this year... we played until very enjoyable even talked on phone for 4 hours..hehe...so pain er my ears at that time...hmmm...well, it was a past memory.

I still like this friend anyway... i think the thing is happened on me myself...He is still like a child who is never grow up as same as me when i was before but i'm not more a child anymore... my hormones have started its works yet my circumstance conditions also had made me growing up...

If I would not get execllent result for SPM, i will be completely gone for life!!

Friends, sometimes cannot trust anymore...only me myself can be trusted the most!

thanks for that, I have been learning since i know myself a little bit...Why does my study mood change every moments? I have to understand Myself 1st before it is too late...SPM ARGGHHH!!

recently i am tired...it does matter, i will be charged back when i think off the natural smile on her face..it is the one of my ways to gain strength..well, may be cant count on that again..who knows she is mine in future. may be not..i can give her my promise in present time bt future i am not sure...So i have to work hard to earn lots money in future...Oleh itu, study and communicative skill are vitally important!!

i really cant see clearly about my future life but present time..so, i know that i need to do what i can do for now... I will remember these words" Now or Never"

Normal

Yes!! I have returned to a normal life le...next day have to work hard le..muz replace the days i moody..wasting time ...gampateh...ie

看了这篇文章再去爱吧...

爱情是追到手的吗？

不是。真正的感情根本不需要追的。

两个人的默契，在慢慢将两颗心的距离缩短，在无意识中渐渐靠近彼此。

从好朋友到情人，真正的感情是用不了多久的。

从你喜欢上他的那一刻起，也许他也在那一刻喜欢上了你。


同节奏的爱情往往能奏出最和谐最动听的乐章。

真正的爱情需要什么？需要两个人在一起是轻松快乐的，没有压力。

爱一个人就是毫无保留地付出吗？
不是。

每一个人都是一个独立的人，我们首先是属于自己的，

我们有思想，我们有个性，而不是把我们的全部都给对方。

我们可以有保留，比如你不愿意说的隐私，有秘密的人才是成熟的，不是吗？

有时候不说出来反而更好。


外貌和个性哪个更重要？
男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子，

25岁以后，会选择和自己性格合适的女子，能和自己一起过日子的人。

喜欢一个人，太急切了，反而不好。

一是因为越想得到的越得不到；

二是得到了也很难珍惜，来得快去得也快。

细水长流一些，爱情会更长久。


相爱容易相处难。

相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协，在信任和了解的基础上。

没有宽容和妥协，任何两个人都无法相处。


纯纯的爱也许只有一次，但是真爱未必只有一次。
时间会抚平一切伤痕。


我们其实是可以爱上很多人的。

我们不是喜欢某个人，而是喜欢某种类型的人。


先来的人和我们相遇了，于是我们幸福地走到了一起；

对于后到的人，只能抱以歉意，同时，祝福他早日找到属于他自己的幸福。


没有谁是我们一生非拥有不可的，

爱一个人，很多时候实际上是习惯了这个人 。



现实和浪漫哪个更重要？
现实。

没有现实为基础，浪漫就是空中楼阁。

大学校园的爱情往往随着毕业而告终，大多是因为不现实，不在一个城市。

只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人，

才会碰撞出最美丽的火花，也才会结出最甜美的爱情果实。


分手后我们还可以做朋友吗？
最好不要。

剪不断，理还乱。

过去了就过去了，我们不是生活在过去，而是现在。

爱情不等于生活，只是生活的一部分。


不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，

长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。

帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。


恋爱的时间能长尽量长。

这最少有两点好处：

一，充分、尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦，

二，两人相处时间越长，越能检验彼此是否真心，越能看出两人性格是否合得来。

想知道一个人爱不爱你，就看他和你在一起有没有活力，

开不开心，有就是爱，没有就是不爱爱情不是感动，

你不是他心目中的理想伴侣，即使一时接受你，

将来碰上他心仪的那一位，一样会离开你。


有些人情绪容易大起大落，这样的人是很难维持一段长久的关系的。

浪漫是什么？
是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？

如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。

否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。


是否门当户对不要紧，最重要应该是兴当趣对，不然没有共同语言，

即使在一起，仍然会感觉到孤独。


持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。

任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱，

或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。


爱情既是风险投资，难免有去无回，失恋是再正常不过的事情。

爱过，就够了。

既然不能在一起，总有不能在一起的理由。

不能因为别人负了你，就不负责任地游戏、报复或是堕落，

自己演的戏，总要自己收场的。


何况，他不爱你，你做什么他都不会在乎。
如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。

莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子；

怯懦，却可能使你一辈子后悔。


没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。

爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华。


你可能习惯与现在的恋人，

明明不太喜欢，但在一起久了，习惯使人不太愿做新的选择。


人生会面临无数次选择。

当给你机会选择时，你一定要谨慎；

一旦你做出了选择，就永远不要后悔；

拿得起，放得下，该断则断，该忘记的，就把它忘记；

该珍惜的，就要把它珍惜

我们总说：“我要找一个很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。”

但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，你却无法回答他，

因为你自己也不知道。


没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。

可是后来，当我们猛然回首，我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。

假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？


其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。

或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，

但是你有没有想过，在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了，

只是你没有发觉而已呢？


所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧，他或许已经等你很久了。

当你爱一个人的时候，爱到八分绝对刚刚好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分，剩下两三分用来爱自己。

如果你还继续爱得更多，很可能会给对方沉重的压力，让彼此喘不过气来，

完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。


所以请记住，喝酒不要超过六分醉，吃饭不要超过七分饱，爱一个人不要超过八分。

如果你也正在为爱迷惘，

或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示：

爱一个人，要了解也要开解；

要道歉也要道谢；要认错也要改错；

要体贴也要体谅；是接受而不是忍受；

是宽容而不是纵容；是支持而不是支配；

是慰问而不是质问；是倾诉而不是控诉；

是难忘而不是遗忘；是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；

是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。


可以浪漫，但不要浪费，不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。


浪漫的人这样描述与爱人的相逢：

千万人当中，在时间的无涯的荒野里，没有早一步，也没 有晚一步，刚巧赶上了。


两个人好着的时候，你不妨就这样想吧。

如果不好了，你要明白是否和某人在一起，不过是一个再简单不过的概率问题。

数千个擦肩而过中，你给谁机会谁就和你有缘分，纵没有甲，也会有乙。


别傻等那种想像中的木石前盟般的缘分了，生活中哪有那么多传奇。


别醒着做梦了，难道你忘了艺术虽然来源生活，却还高于生活吗?

Hate Hate Hate

Hate to be 第三者。。。

If u accepted him to be ur boyfren and u muzt only love him...if not he will be sad...


I decided to suffer alone thn both of men suffering together...

我会好好过的。。。

I cannot do something badly to chase you back...

May be I am too kind...

Please and dun give me a chance to feel that i can chase u...

a few of frens told me u have a new boyfren...

I did not trust

However...

more than 10 ppl even my best fren told me about that, it is true...

I have to believe and accept...

i wish u all the best

Dun worry me..

i will be okay..

dun feel "kolian" to me...

i hate this!!


To me..

i would not give out u...However..

I dislike to destroy ppl's happiness

because...

I hate to be 第三者!!!

=[

Sorry...

wish to continue

Today when waking up, i was still lying on bed...Thinking off last day memories...Ya, It was happy extremely and extraordinarily to take photo beside her again...haha...At first, I didn't sit around her. After a moment, I was intending to be her side...well, No doubt,No second thinking...I left my position and went back to my bag to ready then asset...Go!!...Ya, I really sat THAT place!!Whom was pushing me?I did not know.However, I think I have become a little brave after knowing the "SECRET", A popular book which mushroomed all of the world.

I am not sure what will happen in future, but i wish to continue^^

Last day, Benny gave us a psychometric testing to discover our real ability and career...There were three parts of sub title and one part contained 4 questions..the sub title of three was Heart or Head(1st), Extrovert or Introvert(2nd) ,Facts or Ideas(third)..As a result, I got Heart, Extrovert and Ideas. He showed us the result consecutively...My characteristic is Fun-loving, Optimists , passion and facilitative. My suitable job will be writer, musician, EDITOR and designer

Well, I wish i would not be neither writer nor designer one day...I am not the best in music world although I have flooded with my friends who know music...If next time i have the chance to be the best then i will think about it=]

another one, I quite like to edit something by own...I edited the ticket completely( the concert ticket)...Anyway, I enjoy editing...Sometimes, i could comment the film which was performed not well..I meant there was lacking of something...I always curious when seeing people editing the music or song...I often dream to have my own video edition...Ya, I have one in my mobile phone but my handphone sudah rosak jor le=[...if i want to do it.. i will ask my friend, Eric about it because he is pro in that stuff

By the way, I am not fully agree with my teacher...may be there are some jobs i can do better..It is just a test right?...through from the heart will have a real answer as same as my love, I trust her with my heart recently...Actually, I was thinking to give out her but i did not do it because she gives me the feeling specially and only her can give me this feeling...nobody but her..It is true!

haha..Later wan go out with friends le..I always wish one day i will have the best "Bahagia" in the world and i know only her can give Me. I wish she can accept me going out with me after i invited her

I have learned from last day..to be braver