Wednesday, September 1, 2010

爱情究竟是什么

与善良的人交往,你会变成更善良的人。与乐观的人交往,你会变成更乐观的人,与自信的人交往,你会变成更自信的人。与幽默的人交往,你会变成更幽默的人。

A:Accept(接受)
《世界上没有十全十美的人》记着你爱他,就必须接受他的一切,甚至他的缺点!
“多看人的优点,欣赏他的缺点”

B:believe(信任)
不信任对方,经常以怀疑的口吻盘问对方,这种互相猜度的爱情,往往就只有分手下场。
“主动的信任,会得到相对的回报哦”

C:Care(关心)
关心的程度,正好表现你对她的重视程度,间或打个电话给她关心地问候一句:“工作辛苦吗?”。又或者发短信给她:天气凉了,别忘了添加衣服”这些关心未必有实际用途,但起码能令对方暖在心头,如果还有情书,当然就更OK 啦!
“适当的关心是必需的,过分的关心就成为负担了”请拿捏!

D:Digest(理解)
我们不是圣人,总有情绪起伏的时候,若对方是“凸”的时候,你为何不做“凹”去忍耐和安慰一下呢?
“那就要闪人了,让他/她有私人空间安静吧!”时间会帮助双方做工的。呵呵,也别闪人闪得太久哦!会冰冻掉的。

E:Enjoy(欣赏)
你应欣赏对方的一切欣赏,这段爱情带给你的开心,幸福!这样便会爱得更愉快,不要只懂埋怨,在鸡蛋里挑骨头。
“口吐芬芳,增加感情;没有营养的话,忍一忍就忘了别说哦!”

F:Freedom(自由)
纵然已婚,也应给予对方应有自由及保持秘密的权利,你的另一半不是你的终生奴隶,不要让她认为跟你结婚就等于被困笼中!
“自由是一定的,但是,同时也要在自由中尊重对方,不可乱来哦”

G:Give(付出)
爱情这样东西不一定是你付出“一”,便会收回“一”,但不付出,便一定没有收获,对你的爱人,应有如对自己一样毫无保留地付出,这才算得上真爱!
“只管付出就好,因为,付出也是一种幸福的过程”享受这过程,对人生就是一种交代了。不会遗憾终身!

H:Heart(心)
爱情最重要的道具是心,你必须真心对待,用心去爱,没有心又怎称得上真心相爱?
“心只有一个,想清楚了,决定了,就给那个人就好”别三心二意。

I:Independence(独立)
甜言蜜语的人会说“我是为了你而生”,其实,每个人都有自己的生存意义,不应过分依赖对方,成为对方的沉重负担,甚至累赘!
“独立的同时要有点依赖,依赖的同时,却也要保持独立哦”因为,这世界没有说谁没有谁是不行的。想想要是自己有天死了,这世界还是一样的在运转哦。

J:Jealousy(妒忌)
适当的妒忌,吃醋能表示你对对方的重视!但切记是合情合理的吃醋,反之,毫不讲理大发雷霆地呷醋必惹反感!
“跟煮菜的道理一样,加点盐,添点醋,这菜好吃!调味料放太多了,这菜就不能吃“当掉””

K:Kiss(吻)
一吻胜过千言万语,轻轻的一吻,已能代表你惜她,爱护她,所以请不要吝啬你的红唇!
“记得保持口腔卫生!呵呵”别让你的爱人反感了!那会坏事的!

L:Love(爱)
都说是爱情,没有爱又怎会有情呢?爱跟喜欢不同:爱一个人,你必定愿意为他做任何事!这是最高的境界,闲时不妨跟对方说句“我爱你”,担保比任何礼物来得甜蜜开心!
“大家都不是对方肚子里的蛔虫,“爱”请你说出口!”也请你们以行动表达出来。

M:Mature(成熟)
为什么一般人的初恋,总会无声无色地惨败,因为年轻人多恋爱得较幼稚,况且没有一个人会喜欢对方,长年没头没脑地蹦蹦跳跳,人成熟一点,你的爱情便会早熟一点,直到开花结果!
“成熟的处理“爱情”,会让爱发光发热,永垂不朽!”

N:Nutural(自然)
很多人初拍拖时,都会把一切的缺点隐藏起来,变成另一个人!日子久了,缺点才一箩箩地出现,令对方吃不消,其实不做作,流于自然的爱情才是细水长流的!
“我爱他!因为,他就是他,也不想改变这样的他”

O:Observe(观察)
经常细心观察爱侣的喜好,不但能更了解对方,更能给他惊喜,那份心意,必定比礼物来得珍贵!
“观察最重要的是别观察过度,要不然就会变成疑神疑鬼了”。呵呵!该观察时要观察,观察到我们不该知道的事,就要当着不知道! 傻就一个字。

P:Protect(保护)
做男朋友的,当然要保护女朋友,但做女朋友的亦要保护对方的尊严,不应容许别人中伤侮辱你的另一半。
“保护好爱人是人生第一学问,要修好”

Q:Quarter(宽大)
宽大是基本的要诀,对爱侣的错误,以宽大的态度原谅他,因为你是最爱他的人!
“一只眼开,一只眼关,平安无事,宽怀是德”

R:Receive(接收)
对于爱侣为你所做的,请不要表现得无动于衷,令他气馁。她付出出,你便应以欣赏的态度去接受,这才能令感情更进一步!
“能接收是一件非常幸福的事,请以感恩的心来面对哦!”

S:Share(分享)
若你爱他,就必能与他分享,他的喜与忧,这是作为一个伴侣 ,最简单的责任。
“要分享也要在“对的时间”去分享“对的喜悦”:别在“不对的时间”做“分享”的事情。”要懂得看时间和地点哦!

T:Tender(温柔)
歌都有得唱《Love me tender》啦!爱人当然要温柔的爱 ,因为男人女人,缺乏温柔都不可爱。
“时而温柔,时而娇,时而趣来,时而静!”一成不变“爱的温柔”很快就会“当掉”的。这就是情趣哦。。

U:Understand(理解)
不明白对方的想法,对方跟你说话,你永远只独自发呆,那就是一段缺乏沟通的爱情,多站在对方的立场,将心比心,必定能更了解你的另一半!
“理解对方发呆的时候,是他/她在想一些事情,我们能做的就是不要在他/她的耳朵边“念经”就成了”。过后,他/她会感激你而听你说话的。呵呵……

V:Veracity(诚实)
对爱情必须一百倍的诚实,你也不想你的另一半是个“大话精”吧!时常互相欺骗的感情,又怎能天长地久呢?
“是要诚实啦。但是,有些话不说,并不是不诚实,而是,保护对方的心”。不说反倒是一件好事。何必要执着呢?

W:Wait(等待)
等是维系一段感情的基本元素,最重要的是你要与他同步成长,同步走完这段人生路。千万不可一个走先,遗下另一半在后。
“等就一个字而成的,就是“忍”,心上的一把刀哦”。忍到后来,你们一定是人们所羡慕的一对儿的啦!

X:“X”(乘法符号)
把你对他的爱,每天以倍数地乘上去,爱情自然变成无限大,爱情走也走不掉。
“珍惜,感恩,体谅,付出就是会加倍的把爱给巩固的。”

Y:Yearn(想念)
工作或不在一起时,不妨多想念对方,间或致电或传呼他,说句“我很挂念你”,必能令对方甜在心头,更起劲地工作!
“发个讯息或短讯就好”。要是他正在会议当中,你会吵到他的。记得千万别使劲的拨电话哦。。会给对方带来很多的不便的。

Z:Zero(起点)
无论婚姻与否,无论你认为你们的爱情已经多么坚定,不要忘了,要永远用你们起步相爱是的那种心情来对待对方,不要让岁月给爱情蒙上灰尘,只要真心相爱每一天都是新的。
“爱是一点一滴而成,保持自己感恩的心,确实能保住所有的爱,对方会感受到你的爱的。”因为,每一天都是新的!

最后祝愿人世间所有的爱情,都能够从一个微笑开始,也能够以一生携手结束!

Friday, June 18, 2010

Bell lesson

Geez, I quit hate chat on Msn or SMS...
I prefer talking to that...
However, I liked to chat on Msn and SMS d
Recently, i become the opposite ki liao..haha!!

Well, actually tonight i wanna to share my daily activity d
hmmm....But i would like to share something is new

During tuition at bell, Sir taught us as usual...
Nevertheless,
He has said something making me impress ...that is about

~~Strategy and Thinking~~

He told the class before ..then i started to think back some memories
when i was at lower form...
I was really obedient to this sir(Mr Khoo Choo Keat)
The smartest teacher in my mind...
He is very systematic and skillful...
He taught me lots about the general knowledge
although he teaches me English,he is a good speaker...good motivator...
I am very respect him
without him,
My PMR result wont be so good...of course still have others had helped me lots la
to others might think that 6As is considered okay nia
To me is satisfied liao lo..I always like the moment when knowing the result^^

However, since i am at upper form,
I dropped heavily...
My result is become worse
and i know last year i started to have more pressure and influences from fren... busy for kk...
I did not know why am i dropping so gai

Now, I know already the reason... ~~Strategy and Thinking~~ had given me success before

since last day, I have been disobeying my sir
haha..i tot i could settle everything by myself
tot that i was so clever liao d..dun nid to listen him anyway...
Now i feel regret...I understand that People who is clever will learn continuously...The one i mentioned is my sir ^^...He always tell us that He is old but He is learning new things too=]
I should continue listen to his advice... He, my second dad
Haiz, nvm d la...it was already happened..in fact, i have decreased in study...

Form 4 life really hard to survive..I had forgotten the attitude i had before d

I finally know that f4 life is totally different from lower form life....

so, i am f5 now...

last year le...

别提过去, 别问将来, 珍惜现在美好的这一刻!!

I will hard work with my good Determination...I will be an always learner as same as my sir =]


~~Strategy and Thinking~~ is what i have learned today^^




Thursday, June 17, 2010

C70

I have my own special processions
Such as mobile- phone, cloths, computer and plus plus plus...
When i have that thing,
I start to fly freely... free to move to anywhere in Penang
haha...It's you, C70(Motorbike)

Well, it is very ancient, ugly and slow
I were always complain to my mom for buying a new motor
Mom said that buying a new need money and the old fellow still can be used....Dun waste it
Man!!speechless lo
I wanted a new new new new new d!!
It cannot speed faster!Showing like ah pek sit er motor lai!!
Hate it!!
Making me no face to my friends!!

If one day i had a girlfriend, she would bla bla bla liao la..cham cham cham!!
when i went to tuition or school... I parked it silently...scare ppl would see me...
sometimes, It always bulbs rosak, horn spoiled, tyre punctured...damn mama!!
Nobody nobody loves it!!
so beh young!!
I had been waiting for a new motor...However,

I love it slowly le^^
When I am down.."She" accompanies me..she brings me to what i wanna to go.
She will try her best to bring me even through she is old
When i need her..she will always stand by for me ...
My job is just give her petroleum to create energy to move...
Sometimes I leave her alone under the sun... she just keep her mouth shut there waiting me
I hit her head with my partial strength when she is unwell
she has saved my life for a few times..cause of her..I managed to avoid accident with her slow speed
She is always be strong and withstand all the heat and pressures...till one day...

Till the day I am busy- ing doing my priority... She was sick le..I did not know that until the day(during June Holiday 2010) when I went home v my friend...He told me my motor's light bulb had spoiled but i din notice that... How come i have missed out that ??!!

She is still strong now but her physical "body" is getting deteriorate...
I finally feel that and I told myself with an impactive movement,



"I am useless.............

You are the strongest in the world my fellow...

why? ...Why u are so still strong although looking old and cannot move faster?"


I scare one day u will sick and cant move le T.T
nobody will accompany me when i am down
nobody can bring me to anywhere
please..please...
stay strong...
stay strong...
stay strong...

Nowadays, we as a teenager, still do not know actually what we having are considered better than the new... we would know it if we have exprienced the situation...who does not want a new thing? nobody does not like new thing...To an adult, this will be an opposite story le

we think that the "old" are not suited to us then we throw it after buying a new one but eventually we will know which one is better... Even through "new"can give u everything, u would never have a greater moment with the "new" even the "old" was our 1st ...

Today i have learned to care my procession and my present friend...I knew that if i have a new motor, I would never throw her to the side..i will still use her^^...if she is sick, i will take her to repair..If she could not function well completely, I would nt get rid of her=]





Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Growing 2

Long time I have not written
it's because I have been doing my band stuff
since this year June holiday coming.
Also, I have a laziness in my mind making me delays the my work
I Only can do is pushing myself to my limitation lo.

Today morning, went to Lit Sit secondary school to learn timpani.
Actually, quite hard to play well...
Wait!!
The musicroom has a rectangular shape...Longer than mine
Consider better le...There are none of instruments is not found...Feel admire?
ya, I surely admire that...
reached there quite earlier...I think around 9 something...that school's field was very "era" lo
The school has six six SIx SIX SIXXX blocks..whao!!
anyway, the corridors are narrower than my school's
practised not so satisfied by me myself..need time...but sir said,"that's okay already"..
Fine!!

I saw the drummers were practising for the battle of drum
Wow, I need to plan well for my gang!!
heard that PGHS er percussionists are strong!!

Haha, after that going to eat at Mcd
1st time i eat Muffin( Big Mac)
hehe, Quite tasty^^
I prefer Chicken meat to muffin
Then doing window-shopping with members
Alvin, Brandy, Qian Wei, Li Jia, Melody, Elysia Sze Ting...Sir -Mr Khoo Wei Jie balik jor le
Berbual - bual quite long lei, about an hour and a half...

During the way to my school, It was raining... Worrying myself would think other thing
so, I did sleep at car...Thanks for Li Jia's dad and Alwin Ching to fetch us go^^
Two cars brought 10 ppl..."ToTo Ho" ..haha

After reaching school ma rest at musicroom...haha
6pm went back to house liao
2moron still have practice!!COOL!!

2moron would have funnier thing would be happened...I am waiting^^

Today I learned to be "Braver"...Got reason..haha...I did that after practising the timpani=]

Welcome, "My Tomorrow"

Saturday, May 29, 2010

You need to practice the art of speech

which means confidence, tact and reach.

Listening also plays a part

when relating with your heart.

It will happen, wait and see.

Turn your mind and turn the key.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

can i express everything...my mouth cannot move on the moment... the legs suddenly disobeyed me, moving hardly. It seems that there are something holding me to move forwards... But it is so wired that I cant also move backwards...What the hell is it?It is better to annoy it.

"will u move ?"

It is useless to bait at me... it is because I deny to move... How hard u can push on me and how much i can let u down totally...I believe that my words which i have told someone is no an excuse but a process to make me understand myself well from day to day.

I can give u my words...dun worry for me Mom, bro and..and..and my dad...I wanna to reach !8 year ago le...I am still like Shit sticking on the laziness all the time...Let me myself independent ba..I wanna to see how worse am i now...i wanna see the death of another independent thinker how will he treat me terribly... so damn!!

Well, I started to understand that I am the one who quite hate to compete with people... "you want this ma? thn take it from me ba"...u like my gal ma? so go chase her la ^^"... U wan to leave me ma? thn go ba=]"....haha, it is I am ..hehe... People who dun understand me will tease me like coward la, chicken la, pig la and more... Anyway, I seldom refuse people's request to me... I feel unwell to say NO to them...I feel that if people are happy if i have done it to them then i will also happy d...what for u ask me to compete v them and win them fianlly i gt what i have bt are they happy ?so i am very friendy to everyone if they dun shoot my weakness...

However, this world is unfair... If i dun compete, who gotta to protect my family, friends and my lover?So i have to be stronger thn everyone...To protect someone, means to hurt another....this has become use in this world...who dun like will be kick out and never be the head...even through how i dislike i have to accept this fear... it will make sense for me to grow maturally... I will grow one day and take the duty from my dad..I wanna to tell my dad something:" whether what kind of job i gt, i will protect This family and new family members whom will come in to this family ...I dun nid any motivator but CHALLENGERS...

characteristic is depanded on situation.

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Growing

u ask me when i gotta be serious in my study... I will respond gentlemanly and say: " when the day i totally understand me myself." could u accept this answer?

U are going to scold me i know that but I realize that I have to be stronger in future...Seriously, i have lost the trust slightly to my best friend whom I believe in him the most.I need to be an independent guy.However, sometimes I think that the way of my thought is wrong. I choose to being with him, my best friend again... After few days, he made me moody... I know his attitude anyway since THIS YEAR even through being a friend for three years and four months.

Who knows? you will properly tease at me silkily...

haha... nola, he was very suit to me before this year... we played until very enjoyable even talked on phone for 4 hours..hehe...so pain er my ears at that time...hmmm...well, it was a past memory.

I still like this friend anyway... i think the thing is happened on me myself...He is still like a child who is never grow up as same as me when i was before but i'm not more a child anymore... my hormones have started its works yet my circumstance conditions also had made me growing up...

If I would not get execllent result for SPM, i will be completely gone for life!!

Friends, sometimes cannot trust anymore...only me myself can be trusted the most!

thanks for that, I have been learning since i know myself a little bit...Why does my study mood change every moments? I have to understand Myself 1st before it is too late...SPM ARGGHHH!!

recently i am tired...it does matter, i will be charged back when i think off the natural smile on her face..it is the one of my ways to gain strength..well, may be cant count on that again..who knows she is mine in future. may be not..i can give her my promise in present time bt future i am not sure...So i have to work hard to earn lots money in future...Oleh itu, study and communicative skill are vitally important!!

i really cant see clearly about my future life but present time..so, i know that i need to do what i can do for now... I will remember these words" Now or Never"

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Normal

Yes!! I have returned to a normal life le...next day have to work hard le..muz replace the days i moody..wasting time ...gampateh...ie

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

看了这篇文章再去爱吧...

爱情是追到手的吗?

不是。真正的感情根本不需要追的。

两个人的默契,在慢慢将两颗心的距离缩短,在无意识中渐渐靠近彼此。

从好朋友到情人,真正的感情是用不了多久的。

从你喜欢上他的那一刻起,也许他也在那一刻喜欢上了你。


同节奏的爱情往往能奏出最和谐最动听的乐章。

真正的爱情需要什么?需要两个人在一起是轻松快乐的,没有压力。

爱一个人就是毫无保留地付出吗?
不是。

每一个人都是一个独立的人,我们首先是属于自己的,

我们有思想,我们有个性,而不是把我们的全部都给对方。

我们可以有保留,比如你不愿意说的隐私,有秘密的人才是成熟的,不是吗?

有时候不说出来反而更好。


外貌和个性哪个更重要?
男人年轻的时候往往喜欢漂亮的女子,

25
岁以后,会选择和自己性格合适的女子,能和自己一起过日子的人。

喜欢一个人,太急切了,反而不好。

一是因为越想得到的越得不到;

二是得到了也很难珍惜,来得快去得也快。

细水长流一些,爱情会更长久。


相爱容易相处难

相处中最重要的是宽容和妥协,在信任和了解的基础上。

没有宽容和妥协,任何两个人都无法相处。


纯纯的爱也许只有一次,但是真爱未必只有一次。
时间会抚平一切伤痕。


我们其实是可以爱上很多人的。

我们不是喜欢某个人,而是喜欢某种类型的人。


先来的人和我们相遇了,于是我们幸福地走到了一起;

对于后到的人,只能抱以歉意,同时,祝福他早日找到属于他自己的幸福。


没有谁是我们一生非拥有不可的,

爱一个人,很多时候实际上是习惯了这个人



现实和浪漫哪个更重要?
现实。

没有现实为基础,浪漫就是空中楼阁。

大学校园的爱情往往随着毕业而告终,大多是因为不现实,不在一个城市

只有相互欣赏相互佩服各有所长的人,

才会碰撞出最美丽的火花,也才会结出最甜美的爱情果实。


分手后我们还可以做朋友吗?
最好不要。

剪不断,理还乱。

过去了就过去了,我们不是生活在过去,而是现在。

爱情不等于生活,只是生活的一部分。


不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算,

长相只是一时的印象,真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。

帅哥配丑女,丑女配帅哥的太多了。


恋爱的时间能长尽量长。

这最少有两点好处:

一,充分、尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦,

二,两人相处时间越长,越能检验彼此是否真心,越能看出两人性格是否合得来。

想知道一个人爱不爱你,就看他和你在一起有没有活力,

开不开心,有就是爱,没有就是不爱爱情不是感动,

你不是他心目中的理想伴侣,即使一时接受你,

将来碰上他心仪的那一位,一样会离开你。


有些人情绪容易大起大落,这样的人是很难维持一段长久的关系的。

浪漫是什么?
是送花?雨中漫步?楼前伫立不去?

如果两人彼此倾心相爱,什么事都不做,静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。

否则,即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖,也是感觉不到浪漫的。


是否门当户对不要紧,最重要应该是兴当趣对,不然没有共同语言,

即使在一起,仍然会感觉到孤独。


持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱,建立在平等的基础之上。

任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱,

或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。


爱情既是风险投资,难免有去无回,失恋是再正常不过的事情。

爱过,就够了。

既然不能在一起,总有不能在一起的理由。

不能因为别人负了你,就不负责任地游戏、报复或是堕落,

自己演的戏,总要自己收场的。


何况,他不爱你,你做什么他都不会在乎。
如果爱上,就不要轻易放过机会。

莽撞,可能使你后悔一阵子;

怯懦,却可能使你一辈子后悔。


没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的,没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。

爱情使人生丰富,痛苦使爱情升华。


你可能习惯与现在的恋人,

明明不太喜欢,但在一起久了,习惯使人不太愿做新的选择


人生会面临无数次选择。

当给你机会选择时,你一定要谨慎

一旦你做出了选择,就永远不要后悔;

拿得起,放得下,该断则断,该忘记的,就把它忘记;

该珍惜的,就要把它珍惜

我们总说:我要找一个很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。

但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,你却无法回答他,

因为你自己也不知道。


没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。

可是后来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。

假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?


其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。

或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣,

但是你有没有想过,在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,

只是你没有发觉而已呢?


所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧,他或许已经等你很久了。

当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分,剩下两三分用来爱自己。

如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来,

完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。


所以请记住,喝酒不要超过六分醉,吃饭不要超过七分饱,爱一个人不要超过八分。

如果你也正在为爱迷惘,

或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示:

爱一个人,要了解也要开解;

要道歉也要道谢;要认错也要改错;

要体贴也要体谅;是接受而不是忍受;

是宽容而不是纵容;是支持而不是支配;

是慰问而不是质问;是倾诉而不是控诉;

是难忘而不是遗忘;是彼此交流而不是凡事交代;

是为对方默默祈求而不是向对方诸多要求。


可以浪漫,但不要浪费,不要随便牵手,更不要随便放手。


浪漫的人这样描述与爱人的相逢:

千万人当中,在时间的无涯的荒野里,没有早一步,也没 有晚一步,刚巧赶上了。


两个人好着的时候,你不妨就这样想吧。

如果不好了,你要明白是否和某人在一起,不过是一个再简单不过的概率问题。

数千个擦肩而过中,你给谁机会谁就和你有缘分,纵没有甲,也会有乙。


别傻等那种想像中的木石前盟般的缘分了,生活中哪有那么多传奇。


别醒着做梦了,难道你忘了艺术虽然来源生活,却还高于生活吗?

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Hate Hate Hate

Hate to be 第三者。。。

If u accepted him to be ur boyfren and u muzt only love him...if not he will be sad...


I decided to suffer alone thn both of men suffering together...

我会好好过的。。。


I cannot do something badly to chase you back...

May be I am too kind...

Please and dun give me a chance to feel that i can chase u...

a few of frens told me u have a new boyfren...

I did not trust

However...

more than 10 ppl even my best fren told me about that, it is true...

I have to believe and accept...

i wish u all the best

Dun worry me..

i will be okay..

dun feel "kolian" to me...

i hate this!!


To me..

i would not give out u...However..

I dislike to destroy ppl's happiness

because...

I hate to be 第三者!!!




Saturday, March 20, 2010

wish to continue

Today when waking up, i was still lying on bed...Thinking off last day memories...Ya, It was happy extremely and extraordinarily to take photo beside her again...haha...At first, I didn't sit around her. After a moment, I was intending to be her side...well, No doubt,No second thinking...I left my position and went back to my bag to ready then asset...Go!!...Ya, I really sat THAT place!!Whom was pushing me?I did not know.However, I think I have become a little brave after knowing the "SECRET", A popular book which mushroomed all of the world.

I am not sure what will happen in future, but i wish to continue^^

Last day, Benny gave us a psychometric testing to discover our real ability and career...There were three parts of sub title and one part contained 4 questions..the sub title of three was Heart or Head(1st), Extrovert or Introvert(2nd) ,Facts or Ideas(third)..As a result, I got Heart, Extrovert and Ideas. He showed us the result consecutively...My characteristic is Fun-loving, Optimists , passion and facilitative. My suitable job will be writer, musician, EDITOR and designer

Well, I wish i would not be neither writer nor designer one day...I am not the best in music world although I have flooded with my friends who know music...If next time i have the chance to be the best then i will think about it=]

another one, I quite like to edit something by own...I edited the ticket completely( the concert ticket)...Anyway, I enjoy editing...Sometimes, i could comment the film which was performed not well..I meant there was lacking of something...I always curious when seeing people editing the music or song...I often dream to have my own video edition...Ya, I have one in my mobile phone but my handphone sudah rosak jor le=[...if i want to do it.. i will ask my friend, Eric about it because he is pro in that stuff

By the way, I am not fully agree with my teacher...may be there are some jobs i can do better..It is just a test right?...through from the heart will have a real answer as same as my love, I trust her with my heart recently...Actually, I was thinking to give out her but i did not do it because she gives me the feeling specially and only her can give me this feeling...nobody but her..It is true!

haha..Later wan go out with friends le..I always wish one day i will have the best "Bahagia" in the world and i know only her can give Me. I wish she can accept me going out with me after i invited her

I have learned from last day..to be braver

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Quite impressed

From day to day, I have been telling my friends around me about whom i am loving and it is crazy!!it is more than 10 people!!The people who know:

Eastlife - Alvin Lim, Shayne Koay, Alice khaw, Eric Chew

Band members(f5) -Ng Wei Tung, Melody Chiang, Brandy, Ky, Loke Xin Yi, Jolene Koay

Friends(f5) - 47, Teng Ding , Shun Min, Pei Pinn,Chun Yi, Ching Hou, Joyce, Jolin, Joel, Sim Xin Hui, Tan Chong Sheng, Ah Boy, Jia Wen, Siew Mei, Tian Peng, Xiao Xian, Chun Jing, Yee Ching, Wee Thong, Kun Guan

Ex members - Song Wei, Shu Yik, Chong Jie, Sook Kuan, Alwin, Yung Li, May, Juanita?

Other band Members - Chen Tong, Chan Khye, Yee Mei, Rabecca, Jia Hui, Wei Qian?, Small Alvin Lim, Lisa , Sze Ting, Jean, Stella

VIP - Sow Zhao Sean , Mr Song(Ah Sir)and MOM?(she saw the picture at my room)


Oya, Still have one more person has not counted in. He is a VVIP and he is called




" Steven Sow Zhao Wen"

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

My way - never give out!!

Hey you,silly girl!! I made a change to myself for a better man but


i will not give out to love you!!



It is because this is my way of the attitude!! Never give out!!

I promise myself i wont go back to my world!!!


I am running out of time man!!!

It cant be!!

arrgghh!!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Start over

This year, however I like it, It has happened something terribly and I really lost my way to chase my dreams. Instead of becoming mature, there are more horrible and challenging situations keep coming until i could not breath for a couple of months.

It was all my fault!! I was too playful, I ruined my bright future!! How dare was I...

Suddenly, I realized how important the language subjects is it...The past of mine was thinking about the economic subjects were vital...This year have learned a lots mentally...

Last Friday, I went to Bell tuition center, Benny Khoo taught something special...He told us,"Have u had your future career?"thn he continue to bla bla bla..." Do you work for H&h?"(Big Capital h or small capital h).It means You intend to find that job u want due to your H(Heart) or h(head)?

His wisdom has told me that he was right...If u work with your head, you are planing to earn money and not dedicate to the duty...At the end, u will have anything bt perfect...

To have perfect ratio in life, is to serve your job with your heart and passion. It will turn out the good result which u never ever think about how special u are my friend...Then, Money will automatically flow in your pocket...Work with passion is essential for any leaders...

Everything must be done with heart so that happiness will be here for us...

Hope and Dream are inevitable...To be succeed, they have to stick together and they will produce many good quality of personal attitude such as Determination and hardworking...

I have started over again since I dropped again this year...I guarantee i might not know what would happen in future but I can prepare myself to a better man...

Tody i learned to be more open minded..The first lesson of the "One"

Saturday, January 30, 2010

The Thread of Destiny




I have watched this for some time and haven't really found the "mood" to post things up on my dorama blog but hey. This is a good one to catch. If you guys don't already know, there is a movie out of the same name with the same cast of the show. The movie covers a condensed version of the dorama while the series ( by Fuji TV ) goes into more details.



The story is as most people know based on the mobile phone novel that had 36 million readers ( wow ) and i didn't initially pick it up because after watching Sky Of Love - i was thoroughly depressed. However, when the lead actor popped out on Astro... i thought i decided to check it out ( yes i am that shallow at times ).

Do you remember when you were in your teens, you had many friends but there is a small group which you were much closer to? Well, watching Akai Ito will bring back memories of such times. The red thread of destiny ( akai ito ) revolves around Atsushi Nishino and Mei Takemiya who from birth were bounded together by destiny and met when they where 15 going to 16 years of age.



Mei first met A-kun ( pronounced ah-kun and short for Atsushi ) in class when she picked up his chocolate bar. Theirs is a funny meeting at first, they keep bumping to each other in akward moments -such as, A-Kun, witnessing Mei being told that Yuza ( the person she originally liked before A-Kun ) was interested in her sister, her jumping around trying to get a phone reception on the school rooftop etc. ( That was a bit hilarious in some sense )




A-kun is initially a bit withdrawn from everyone and always seems to be having some chores or rushing off somewhere - and when asked by everyone he will say " i have things to do or" his favorite - "some adult situations to handle ... " however the group dynamics of mei's friends pulls him towards them.

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The show does a flash back of how Mei and A-kun met 6 years back at a front of a cake shop and A-kun discovers a photo which gaves him indication they have met before. A little by little he realizes she was the little girl at the cake shop and slowly starts to fall in love with Mei. Check out the bit where A-kun asked Mei out on a first date- that was so cute! Lol



However, things turn a bit drastic after this, after the initial lovey dovey feel. As young teenagers, hormones raging, love affairs don't normally restrict to just a couple but there are others that interested in our hero and heroine. Taka, one of the guys from the group is interested in Mei, while Sara, ( the goth lolita girl ) was interested in Taka. Mei and A-kun themselves had a history in their family that has embedded deeply in drugs. A-kun's "adult situations" was actually his mother's drug problem that requires her to be in and out of rehab and hospitals as well. He hides his family problems from everyone including Mei, except with only the help of a guardian and Mami a girl he met when he was younger.




During a field trip to Nagasaki, Mei and A-kun set themselves up for a date which gets cut short 1/2 way as A-kun's mother gets admitted to hospital again this time. Leaving her alone with her friends in Nagasaki, Taka tries to make a move on her however, Sara who was having a crush on Taka feels betrayed and thought that mei was going out with Taka. She then decides to commit suicide unable to bear the hurt caused by this revelation. Here's where the story goes very fast pace here.




A-kun's mother's problems requires him to leave town for her rehabilitation to kick in and Mei, struggling to come to terms with Sara's attempted suicide starts of a series of misunderstanding that tears the 2 young lovers apart. Unable to understand A-kun's sudden departure from town ( he refuses to explain why to her and decides that the best way for her is to be cruel to her ) and also being blamed in school for Sara's suicide attempt, Mei, moves closer to Taka, the only person she thought understands here.




You need to watch the series as to what happens to A-kun and Mei from then on and whether these two star crossed lovers really get back together. The story will delve deeper into drug abuse and what happens to families when it happens, abuse ( yes, there is and i will not spoil your story you need to find out who ) and teenage pregnancy. I promise you at the end of the show your eyes won't be dry.
The 2 young thespians in this show deserve credit for this show. Junpei Mizobata plays the young A-kun. Now, when i watched him Hachi One Diver, i was not so impressed with him there. But in Akai Ito, he shines. A-kun is not one person who speaks a lot, but a lot of his emotions, feelings and thoughts are conveyed through Junpei's facial expressions. Also A-kun's character belies the maturity of a person so young bearing all his mother's problems stoically on his own. In someways, A-kun has become quite emotionally detached, that he rather put up with Mami liking him rather than to honestly tell her how he feels. There are some angles he looks a bit like a young takuya kimura with very expressive eyes, given the right drama, i think he can make it to takuya's level.




Mei was initially one character i thought who was pretty spineless but she turned out to be one of my favorite characters- her strength grows from each episode. The girl who plays mei looks sweet ( not very gorgeous but fits the story well ) and would love to save everyone except her self. The bits that really irked me in her character though when she accepted abuse from Taka ( aha- spoiler ) with reasons that i cannot fathom why one should. Possibly she blamed herself for his anger or insecurities. However despite what fate has thrown to her, unlike those around her that resorted




The other characters were well played, all likable yet characters with distinctive issues with each one of them. Only one i really do not like is Taka. I am not sure why they pick a guy who looks like a girl... what's with the over plucked eye brows for guys... Some how or rather he ended up not being my favorite character.




I have read some comments, this show is just for teenagers only but i don't really think so. A story if well told, will get audiences from all ages. The storyline maybe familiar but the actors and all carry the story to a point everyone can enjoy. If you start feeling any of the emotions any of the characters in show feel, i think it's a good show in my books. If you don't have anything to do this long weekend, catch this show.